Infidelity recovery resources
In addition to finding a therapist that specializes in working with betrayal trauma and infidelity, here are other resources:
INFIDELITY support groups:
Betrayed partners can find support in peer facilitated groups through the Beyond Affairs Network (which have other resources for the participating partner also).
There is a group run by a local facilitator in the Greater Toronto Area and there are many resources here, including 1:1 support and resources for the participating partner: Alove - HEAL Support Groups.
Participants in the Support Groups may be in a variety of processes, and all are welcome (e.g. staying with or not with their partner, in limbo, all genders, ages, etc).
There is a group for women only in the Greater Toronto Area. The Women's Infidelity Separation and Divorce Support Group, found on Meetup, and facilitated by a woman who has been through her own process of recovery.
INFIDELITY RECOVERY ONLINE FORUM:
INFIDELITY RECOVERY Books
Not Just Friends by Shirley Glass
Rebuilding When Your Relationship Ends (which, despite its title, you can also read with your partner to rebuild a new relationship together).
Please also see AffairyTales for an e-book series that covers aspects of loss, trauma, grief, coping with emotions and recovery. There are short blog articles that you may find useful on my site Emotional ICU.
INFIDELITY RECOVERY Online course:
Please feel free to reach out if you have specific questions or know of other useful resources I can add!